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Author of Two Books including the award-winning Racial Realities and Post-Racial Dreams: The Age of Obama and Beyond, and Editor of two others including the widely circulated The Cultural Impact of Kanye West, Julius Bailey courageously bears his soul in witness to his journey of love, loss and personal responsibility. This highly sought-out public speaker shares many of the stories and circumstances that brought him from being thrown out of 2 grammar schools and 2 high schools to graduating from some of America’s most prestigious Universities.
He invites you into his fight with depression as he discusses:
  • Sexual abuse as a child from babysitters,
  • A failed suicide attempt,
  • A failed search for a relationship with his father and his unreconciled striving to fill that gap with other men of influence
  • Destroyed Love Relationships
  • Battling with being a Fat boy and a Fat man while loving women
  • A Failed Marriage
  • Sexual Addictions and more…

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    Early Praise of The Book

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    • Dr. Bailey's memoir is a much needed tome that highlights the both the reality of black male frailty and the necessity for self introspection. His personal journey serves as a reminder of the need for rituals of healing, therapy, and wholeness.

      Kamasi Hill, PhD

    • “Julius Bailey is one of the leading philosophers of his generation. In this powerful and painful memoir he delves into the profound depths of his own wounded soul and emerges with a shining dignity and witness. Don't miss this timely text!”

      Dr. Cornel West

    • “In Julius Dion Bailey's memoir, Be-Longing... this beautiful, powerful, and loving man speaks with a depth of vulnerability I have rarely experienced with Black Men.”

      Iyanla Vanzant

    Be-Longing: Triumph in the Mirror In the Press

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